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Internet Child Safety - Protecting Children on the Internet
The Internet is a fantastic resource for kids, offering both entertainment
and knowledge. The different ways and places kids can go online is increasing
rapidly, cafes, schools, phones, PDA's all offer portals to the online
world. Just as in the real world, the virtual world poses dangers to your
kids. While very much hyped by media, the dangers for kids online are
none the less real. Although ISP's and governments strive to provide a
safe enjoyable online experience, it's impossible to guarantee this. Just
as in the real world there is no substitute for parents supervising and
educating their children, encouraging safe online practices.
What can Parents do to Protect their Children Online?
Children need a certain amount of privacy in the real world, the also
need parental involvement and guidance. The balance you strike in the
real world should be what you strive to achieve in their online life also.
Just as you would in normal activities, if you're concerned about their
online activities talk to them. Become involved in their online life in
the same way you do with other things they do. Don't wait until you think
there is a problem, your involvement could actually avoid any problems.
Many parents shy away from this, after all some have no idea about the
online world. If your unsure, speak to your childes teacher, ask a trusted
Internet savvy friend. If your child tells you about an upsetting message,
web-site or person online, offer advice on how to avoid this in the future.
Most importantly the way you react will determine if they come to you
in the future with similar problems. Some ISP's offer Internet filtering
that removes some pornography and other content not suitable for kids.
You can also buy filters for your computers at home. By installing the
filters on your on PCs, you have far greater control over your child's
activities. After all would you let the electricity company decide if
your children can watch a movie or not? It makes sense you maintain that
control. Filters however are not perfect, some sites will get through,
administrators of these sites spend their time finding ways around the
filters, so do your kids. In addition to an Internet filter, you should
filter you e-mail for spam. Much spam has an adult subject so is a source
of material kids should not be reading. While filters are a valuable tool,
they are no substitute for supervision, the Internet is not a TV or video
game, don't treat it like a nanny.
Net Nanny 5 Special Edition.
Set Rules The Whole Family Follows Online
- Never give out identifying information in chat rooms, news groups
and forums. Many people other than the intended recipient could read
the information. Teach your children to think carefully before giving
information such as name, age, phone number, school, financial details
etc.
- Never give personal information in e-mails unless they're sure they
know and trust the recipient.
- When joining social networking sites such as Myspace, Facebook, or
opening instant messenger accounts such as MSN or Yahoo Messenger, use
a pseudonym.
- If your child opens an online e-mail account, don't let them place
their account in the public directory (if the site has one).
- Avoid listing your name, or your child's name in any public directories
and profiles.
- Insist your child has your permission to meet anyone in person they
know from the Internet, and never allow them to meet anyone alone. Always
ensure there is a trusted adult there and the meeting is in a public
place.
- Don't allow your child to respond to obscene, suggestive, abusive,
or threatening messages. If your child receives such messages forward
them to your ISP and ask for help.
- Never click links or open attachments in an e-mail from someone your
don't know. Such links and attachments can contain viruses, possibly
with the aim of stealing personal information.
- If your child is being subjected to cyber bullying, teach them to
turn off their phone, block the perpetrators profile and ignore their
messages. Often as in the real world, if the bully gets no response/reaction
they go away. Also make sure your child is not a cyber bully. Most social
networking and instant massaging services have an abuse policy and method
of reporting abuse, use it. Although abuse policies mainly deal with
spam, they are increasing including anti-social behaviour in these policies.
Remember these are rules that the whole family should follow. They
will provide the whole family with good personal online security.
The online world of chat rooms, web-sites, instant massaging and newsgroups
etc offer both children and adults valuable opportunities for peer socialisation
and knowledge. With common sense rules, and communication, you can help
your child avoid unpleasant and dangerous situations in their online activities.
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